There you have it folks, young love, full of promise, full of hope, ignorant of reality.

For the Muslims who say “I didn’t mean to fall in love, it just happened”. No it did not just happen. You made it happen idiot!
Girls want boyfriends so that she can have their attention. Any attention to her is better than no attention. The difference between the need for love and the need for attention is that the former does it passively. In some cases, girl feels insecure about herself. Her self-esteem is low and so she relies on the boy to make her feel good about herself. The root of falling into the trap of peer-pressures, popularity contests, the need to be wanted and loved, and to have attention, is insecurity. This also applies to the bored girl. This insecurity basically comes from not knowing your purpose of life.

Also, it is ironical that parents react as if there is a death in the family when their daughter engages in a girlfriend-boyfriend relationship. But when it is the son who is in a similar or worse position, the same parents are completely calm. They feel that the boy is just having fun and fooling around before he can settle down and marry and then the idiot (who is the boy) will become a saint. It is as if the daughter alone carries the honor of the family. That’s not following the religion, that’s following your cultural respect. I’m sure that that aunty who is their Grandfather’s brother’s wife’s sister will not think so greatly of your daughter.
We all make mistakes. But I think once we understand our mistake, or why it is or was wrong, it prevents us from repeating it. If we go on not knowing why it’s wrong, we are bound to repeat it again on the first chance we get.

You feel me?