Easyyy there!

The issue isn’t that some people don’t dress-up enough; it’s that they dress up too much. For someone who doesn’t bother with their look much is fine the way they are. For the ones who accessories too much, add thickness to the look and the overall look starts to look shabby, even if the accessories are nice. In my opinion if you have one statement piece in your whole outfit, you look classy and graceful. As if you wear a nice necklace then don’t wear ear rings, same goes with belts and scarves, shoes, hair accessories, handbags, shades and all types of jewelry. Let one or two things be the statement of your look and if the outfit itself is dramatic it isn’t necessary to accessories. It can be tempting when a few things match with the outfit. The same thing applies to make up, keep a focus of either eyes, lips or blush. When all three are combined it draws too much attention to the face in a negative way. Too much can suggest you’re trying too hard. Also, it’s good to groom that is age appropriate, especially for younger girls and older woman. Sometimes we don’t grow out of a certain style or colours that are no longer age appropriate for us.
Obviously I’m not an expert and this is my own opinion. I’m speaking from personal experiences from myself and other people that I see. My mum never let me do anything like wear make up until I was in grade 8/9 and until then she chose my clothes, once I was allowed to wear make up and choose my clothes for myself I think I got excited and wore whatever I could get my hands on!