I say congratulations to the parents whose children are not spoiled. Why are children so spoiled now? I’m not even exaggerating, when we were younger, we were shitless scared to do or say dumb things. Now little kids are such brats and their parents are so proud of their “princess/king” behavior. The way I see it, the more you do for them, the less they will appreciate it from you, as well as things in general. For example, you have two little ones (old enough to understand) and you buy them both a can of coke, knowing that they are unable to finish it. They will drink half and throw the rest away, knowing they can get it out of their parent to buy it for them. To avoid fights between the children, they don’t learn share. Things aren’t appreciated from children, they waste without thinking twice. In the real world your child will not be the center of attention among others. So he or she shouldn't be treated this way because it is important for him or her to learn that there are others in this world
It is important to give praise to a child when the praise is worthy and has truly been earned. Children realize when they are praised for something they shouldn't be. False praise for an only child further cements the impression that the world revolves around them.
Other then that, why are little girls wearing make up and dressing up like 25 year old ladies? Being 13 or 15 doesn’t mean you’re ready to be an adult and start dressing and behaving like them. I wasn’t allowed to wear anything other then vaseline and lip smackers.
Only if I the president.
I totally get what your saying but trust me, children are very hard to take care of and sometimes, along the way unknowingly, we spoil them. I felt the same way about spoiled children then I had my baby girl and sometimes she drives us in any direction she wants because of the control she has over us.Raising your children to be good people is not an easy thing to do
ReplyDeleteYou're just angry because you weren't allowed to wear anything but 'Vaseline and lip smackers'.
ReplyDeleteyes clearly your just jealous u weren't allowed to do all the things ..
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doesn't sound like jealousy to me. she's stating her opinion.
ReplyDeleteWhen I was little, yeah I probably was jealous of the little girls who were allowed to do things that I wasn't. But now, I'm a little glad my mother didn't allow me to walk around like a 10 year old hooker.
ReplyDeleteTo the first aninymous comment- I know exactly what you mean. Ever since my niece turned 3, she has all these demands and it's so much easier to let her have it her way then to try to make her do something otherwise.
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